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Less commonly refers to a D-type responsible for instilling self-discipline within their charge, such as nutrition, exercise, self-care. Also known as ippon nawa. NRE New Relationship Energy - The excitement and infatuation that comes from experiencing the beginning of a relationship. Kajirus - Gorean term for a male slave. Commonly referred to as 'face fucking'.
Cuckold - A man whose female partner has sex with other men, commonly involving some level of humiliation. Disciplinarian - Most commonly, a D-type preferring to use discipline such as spankings, canings, etc as a means of punishment or behaviour correction. Also known as Rainbow Play. Capnolagnia - Arousal caused by watching others smoke.
Dollification is a kink gay speed dating ranica process with a variety of preferences and presentations. Metamour - The lover of a lover - consider the metamours to be the top of a V in a poly relationship, Microbranding - The use of a small heated poker to create a series of dots. Some collaring events are similar to a wedding, others are simple acts between the two people.
Forniphilia - Sexual interest in human furniture play. If, for instance, Kevin was perfectly at ease with his dominatrix sessions and did not feel as if they were interfering with his dating and work kink gay speed dating ranica, and instead was coming to therapy about to his desire to change professions, his sexual fetish would be a clinical non-issue.
DP Double Penetration - The act of penetration occurring in more than one orifice simultaneously. FemDom - Short form for Female Dominant or Female Domination, typically refers to a dynamic between a male s-type and female Dominant, but can encompass any female Dominant-led activities. Cell Popping - The use of a small heated poker to create a series of dots.
Often deems themselves 'too old' to enjoy Little-specific activities. An emotional connection between the Top and bottom is often found. The extent of the Dominant's influence is between the D-type and their s-type. Florentine - An artistic form of flogging, creating a figure-8 shape with a flogger in each hand. Hedonism - The pursuit of one's own pleasure.
He also says that he has recently started dating a woman he met through another attorney, and he is afraid that if they have sex she will notice the many marks and bruises that he nearly always has on various parts of his body. Dacryphilia - Sexual interest in the sight of tears or crying. K Kajir - Gorean term referring to a group of slaves of either gender.
Most commonly, males with exaggerated makeup, hair, and female attire, known as Drag Queens. Klismaphilia - Sexual interest in the usage of enemas. FLR Female Led Relationship - Common acronym denoting a power exchange dynamic, where the authority lies with the female. And with good reason, because if you search the internet youll find a wide variety of definitions with quite a lot of overlap.
Eualgia - Known as "good pain"; as opposed to unbearable pain or agony. Felching - The act of licking or sucking bodily fluids from the anus. This is not a legally-binding document. Once again, the APA very clearly states that a specific behavior does not become a paraphilic disorder a pathology unless and until it causes clinically significant distress or impairment.
The basic behavior, consuming alcohol, is the same, but the underpinnings, impact, and long-term effects are quite different depending on the person. Catheterophilia - Sexual interest in the thought, act, or watching the usage of a catheter. This creates a sense of vulnerability. L Lactophilia - Sexual interest in breast milk. Cunnilingus - The act of oral sex performed on kink gay speed dating ranica female.
Flogging - The act of striking someone with a flogger. Gun Play - A scene involving the use of one or more guns, whether loaded or unloaded. And they could not be more right. Gimp Attire - Masks and suits, often leather, latex, or PVC, worn as a form of bondage to restrain the wearer. N Nantaimori - A Japanese practice of serving sushi or sashimi upon the naked body of a male.
Hog Tie - Bondage technique binding the ankles and wrists together behind the back. Impact Play - Common form of activities involving one person striking another, such as spanking, flogging, caning, paddling. Fluid Exchange - Generally refers to any activity where fluid transfer may occur, such as penetrative sexual intercourse, kissing, oral sex, etc, as well as blood play.
Similar to Squirting. Use of sterile catheters is a must, and consideration should be given to the chance of serious infection. However, the behavior is clearly a primary element of Kevins sexual life, elevating BDSM the level of a fetish. I Ichinawa - Form of bondage using just one rope. Considering Role - A period of time during which a D-type is forming a decision on whether or not to take a dynamic to the next level, ie Collaring, enslavement, etc.
Feminisation - The act of forcefully dressing someone in an overly feminine way, kink gay speed dating ranica in an exaggerated manner with frilly dresses and makeup. Also known as Sissification. Creampie - The eating of semen from a vagina or anus. NSA No Strings Attached - An agreement between partners where the relationship is based purely on physical connection, with no emotional attachment.
Necrophilia - Sexual interest in corpses. Fall - The striking end of a whip or flogger. Other somewhat outr possibilities include: Anthropophagy: Ingesting human flesh Chremastistophilia: Being robbed or held up Eproctophilia: Flatulence Formicophilia: Being crawled on by insects Lactophilia: Breast milk Symphorophilia: Witnessing or staging disasters, such as fires and car accidents Teratophilia: Deformed or monstrous people Just so you know, if theres a psychological term for it, at least a few people are into it.
Care should be given to patch test for allergies ahead of a scene. Microphilia - Sexual interest in tiny men or women. This forms a tapered hollow point at the striking end. Collar - A symbol used to denote the s-type's relationship, often referred to as "Collared by". Sometimes referred to as a Family, House, or Pack, depending on the dynamic in question.
Keraunophilia - Sexual interest in thunderstorms. Ippon Nawa - Form of bondage using just one rope. Chastity - The act of preventing access to or stimulation of sexual organs, often through a specific device. Rather, it is the way in which it affects Kevin that is pathologized. Can be a surface-level activity, or used for deep tissue bruising. Green Flag - A positive indicator about a potential partner, such as humility, understanding, patience, honesty.
Caning - The kink gay speed dating ranica of striking someone with a cane. May refer to a corner of the house or an entire building hosting BDSM parties. Green flags are subjective dependent upon the desired connection. Forced Orgasms - The act of inducing orgasm against a person's will, or in spite of their instruction not to climax orgasm denial.
FFM - Common acronym denoting a threesome involving two females and a male, where the females do interact with eachother. Munch - An informal social gathering of new and active members of a kink community. Coprolalia - Arousal kink gay speed dating ranica by the use of profanity i. Crumbs - Short form of "breadcrumbs", used to highlight a post for other's attention by making it visible to your followers.
MMF - Common acronym denoting a threesome involving two males and a female, where the males do interact with eachother. Erotic Asphyxiation - Sexual interest in the asphyxia of oneself or others, also known as Breath Play. Fluid Bonding - The act of wilfully, and consensually, choosing to remove barriers such as condoms from sexual activity with a partner.
Leather Lifestyle - Considered the precursor of BDSM structures, Leather is widely categorised by wearing leather, but breaks down further into Old and New styles, which may include formal training, etiquette, and protocols. This can be done with the intention of causing pain, or for decorative purposes. Discipline - Activities in which codes of conduct are enforced, or punishment is inflicted.
Frotteurism - Deriving sexual pleasure from rubbing against a non-consenting person. Family - A group of individuals in a relationship who may or may not live together. Cane - A long thin rod used for impact play, commonly made from rattan, bamboo, carbon fibre, or hardwood. Also known as ichinawa. This is a form of edge play, and as such, should be approached with care.
Consider the following client: Kevin, a year-old attorney, enters therapy for severe anxiety. Commonly a form of humiliation. This is somewhat subjective. See Objectum Sexuality. Can be used as a form of punishment or control. Usually presented with a capitalised letter. Crop - A semi-flexible thin rod with a handle at one end and a leather loop at the other, as used with horses.
Clan - A group of individuals in a relationship who may or may not live together. Most often exerts control over one or more submissives, who most commonly identify as slaves. Interrogation Play - A scenario, or Scene, in which the bottom is subjected to questioning, often in the form of torture or ruthless questioning from multiple sources.
Hood - A covering over the entire head. Needle Play - A scene involving the use of needles, from either side of the slash. O Objectification - The act of treating a person like an object, animate or otherwise. Fear Play - Form of psychological play, uses real fear in a controlled manner. This is a practice that left unchecked can lead to dire financial situations for the s-type, and should be considered carefully.
Dragon's Tail - A whip consisting of a handle, with a triangular piece of suede, leather, or similar. Sure, its the one that gets the most attention, especially with the Fifty Shades books and movies, but its hardly a lone sexual outlier.
John D: "This FAQ section was helpful in understanding the photo policy. I was wondering if I could take some selfies!"Sometimes referred to as a Clan, House, or Pack, depending on the dynamic in question. Drop sub- Dom- Top- etc - An emotional state caused by the sudden drop of hormones after a Scene or Play. Consideration should be given to the chance of serious infection. Gerontophilia - Sexual interest in the elderly. Gimp Role - Someone who wears gimp attire; may be for the purpose of humiliation or objectification.
Emetophilia - Sexual interest in vomit. He says he does not become physically aroused while this is occurring, but after the dominatrix leaves he masturbates furiously. Butch - Typically a female-identified whose social and relationship roles are perceived by many as being masculine, often with lesbian, gay, or queer orientation. Cupping - The act of using a suction device on the body; commonly with glass suction cups.
May refer to the training of skills as well as behaviours. Limit - Practices someone doesn't wish to include, or requires additional negotiation around. F Facesitting - The act of sitting on another's face, generally to facilitate oral-genital or oral-anal contact. The act of one partner urinating on another, or less commonly upon oneself. Dollification - The process of evolving into a living doll.
If BDSM was something Kevin engaged in occasionally with his partner s for a little bit of extra fun during sex, we would say hes got a kink. G Gag - 1 A device on or around the mouth to prevent speech. Fetishes are nontraditional sexual interests or behaviors kinks that are, for a particular individual, a deep and abiding and possibly even necessary element of sexual arousal and activity.
Mental Kink gay speed dating ranica - A psychological form of bondage; remaining in position through instruction only. Exhibitionism - Deriving sexual pleasure from exposing oneself sexually to others, with or without the consent of others or even the one being exposed. Ethical Non-Monogamy - general term used to describe all consensually non-monogamous relationships wherein open communication and respect between all partners is observed, whether they are long- or short-term.
The DSM-5 specifically lists eight potential paraphilic disorders: Voyeuristic disorder sexualized spying Exhibitionistic disorder exposing the genitals Frotteuristic disorder rubbing up against a nonconsenting person Sexual masochism disorder undergoing humiliation, bondage, or suffering Sexual sadism disorder inflicting humiliation, bondage, or suffering Pedophilic disorder sexual focus on prepubescent children Fetishistic disorder sexual focus on kink gay speed dating ranica objects or nonsexual body parts Transvestic disorder cross-dressing for sexual arousal.
House - A group of individuals in a relationship who may or may not live together. Hebephilia - Sexual interest in early pubescent children. FtM - A female to male transgender. May also refer to a D-type who enjoys brat taming. In the same way, we kink gay speed dating ranica not say that BDSM is pathological. Milking - The act of forcing a male to ejaculate without necessarily experiencing orgasm.
A kink, a fetish, and a paraphilia can involve the same behavior, but the role that behavior plays and the effects it has can be very different depending on the person. Some Gorean practitioners do so without the use of practices like bondage, discipline, etc. Moreover, it is only when the behavior is taken to an extreme that results in negative life consequences that its viewed as a kink gay speed dating ranica.
Enderacinism - Deriving sexual pleasure from the act or thought of tearing out sexual organs by the roots. Paraphilias are fetishes that have escalated in ways that have resulted in negative life consequences. The definition of 'edge play' can vary from person to person, but is widely kink gay speed dating ranica to refer to anything with the potential to be dangerous, damaging, kink gay speed dating ranica have long-lasting consequences.
Daddy - Variant of a D-type role within a power dynamic, often with nurturing and gentle practices. Hard Limit - Non-negotiable actions that a person will not do, and should never be coerced into. Open to many structures, a House is often headed by a Dominant, but may be Leather, age-playing, poly, or otherwise. May or may not have an opening for the mouth and nose.
Nipple Torture - The infliction of pain exclusively on the nipples. Kinbaku - Intentional form of bondage, translated as "tight binding", most commonly as form of restraint, or to cause pain. Funishment - A light-hearted form of punishment or kink gay speed dating ranica, often allowing the bottom to enjoy the sensations, as opposed to serious retribution.
Safewords are strongly recommended, but are not always used. Menophilia - Sexual interest in menstruation. Harem - A group of s-types in service to one D-type. Chremastistophilia - Sexual interest in being robbed or held up. Ederacinism - Sexual desire to remove one's own penis; often as a way to remove the parts that drive one to 'sin'.
Negotiation - Crucial communication ahead of a scene, play, or dynamic where limits, expectations, and other key elements are discussed. Failsafe - Used in bondage, allows the bottom to escape the arrangement in case of emergency. Kleptophilia - Sexual interest in stealing; also known as kleptolagnia. Consent - The mutual agreement of all involved parties to the terms of a scene, dynamic, or relationship.
Often entirely dependent upon how a given Leather family defines the term. Knife Play - A scene involving the use of one or more knives, from either side of the slash. Often shortened to KH. Kidnapping Play - A scenario, or Scene, in which the bottom is restrained and taken to another location, often by force. Gangbang - Historically, an act of raping someone committed by several people at the same time; the act of one person most commonly female having sex with several men at once.
MMM - Common acronym denoting an all-male threesome. Can be self-inflicted. Because objectification is so varied, it is incredibly important to communicate limits and ensure mutual consent prior to engaging in this activity. We do not say that drinking alcohol is inherently pathological because plenty of people do it without any problems at all.
Limits may evolve over time with exploration, but nobody should ever agree to something they're not comfortable with. Gorean Gor - Specific lifestyle choice based on the novels of sci-fi writer John Norman. Generally paired in dynamics with a Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver. Kajira - Gorean term for a female slave. High Protocol - The mutual practice of strict, almost militant, rules and expectations between a Dominant and a submissive in a power dynamic.
Fire Play - A scene involving the use of flammable liquid to create quick flashes of kink gay speed dating ranica on the skin. He is unwilling to tell his new girlfriend about his sexual arousal patterns, and this is creating a great deal of stress and anxiety. Human Pet - Often, a well-treated s-type with companionship and affection as their acts of service; often differs from pet play in that there are no kink gay speed dating ranica behaviours involved.
Gynemimetophilia - Sexual interest in trans-women. Also known as microbranding. Also known as Queening. Mummification - The act of immobilising the body through wrapping in multiple layers. Hematolagnia - Sexual pleasure derived from blood and blood play. Kink - An unconventional or unusual sexual preference or behaviour.
Hooks Suspension - Weight-bearing metal hooks designed for suspension of the human form; placed in key points around the body to support the weight. Knismolagnia - Arousal caused by tickling. Keyholder - An individual holding the key to a chastity device, and therefore the power to grant or deny orgasm. Chemical Play - The use of chemicals to produce sensations, such as ginger, cinnamon, cayenne, menthol, etc.
He also says that twice in the past year he has started dating a woman he liked, only to break up with her because the stress of his compartmentalized sexual life felt overwhelming to him. Clover Clamp - Nipple clamps with a level mechanism, enabling increased pressure when the chain is pulled. Often intentionally intensified through public acts.
Different forms of cane and impact zones will affect the sensation. Harness - 1 Bondage attire used for suspension. Corset Piercing - A form of body modification where piercings fitted with hoops or D-rings are placed up the back and laced to resemble a corset. MtF - A male to female transgender. Cilice - A spiked metal belt worn around the thigh.
Nipple Clamps - A clamp device designed or adapted for use on the nipples to restrict blood flow or cause a 'tugging' sensation in predicaments. Commonly, the naked female can be subjected to any range of treatments or tortures. Nesting Partner - Denotes co-habiting partners, similar to the common setup of live-in a vanilla relationship, though they may not be primary partners in a Poly dynamic.
Hybristophilia - Sexual interest in criminals, particularly for cruel or extremely violent crimes. Frenzy - A dangerous headspace experienced by many newcomers to kink and BDSM, where the person actively seeks out experiences and partners, without showing due care for their well-being. Irrumatio - The act of thrusting one's phallus into a partner's mouth and throat.
Catheter - A medical device specifically designed for insertion into the bladder via the urinary canal in order to drain the bladder. Lashes, or falls, are usually made from leather, suede, rope, or rubber. Glory Hole - A hole in a partition used to perform anonymous sex acts, often in public settings such as bathrooms. In my work, I tend to define kinks as nontraditional sexual behaviors that people sometimes use to spice things up, but that they can take or leave depending on their partner, their mood, etc.
FinDom - Short form for Financial Dominant or Financial Domination, where an s-type will give sums of money to the Dominant, sometimes with nothing in return. Made from multiple lashes attached to a handle. Dogging - The act of sex, with spectatorship encouraged, such as in a car park or public woodland. Mentor Role - A trusted adviser or guide who has knowledge and experience.
Nyotaimori - A Japanese practice of serving sushi or sashimi upon the naked body of a female. Open to many structures, a Clan is often headed by a Dominant, but may be Leather, age-playing, poly, or otherwise. Lolita - An ageplaying s-type typically fulfilling the role of a precocious year old. Chronophilia - Sexual interest in having partners of a widely differing chronological age range.
Infibulation - The act of 'closing' the genitals, rendering them useless, often through suturing, glue, or piercings. Often in reference to doctors, therapists, craftsmen, etc. Also known as cell popping. Also known as the honeymoon phase. Not to be confused with Edge Play. Merinthophilia - Sexual interest in tying someone up or being tied up with rope or similar material.
Notably, it is not the behavior itself that is pathologized. CD Cross Dresser - Someone who wears the clothing of the opposite sex. He also feels like his performance at work is suffering because of his anxiety. Madame - Typically a woman who operates or owns a sex work operation. Most commonly used as a form of orgasm denial. Handler - A D-type with a preference for pet play, acting as a care taker.
Cutting - The act of using a sharp implement to draw blood. Nasophilia - Sexual interest in noses. Not to be confused with Edging. Dominant Role - Someone who accepts power and control in a power exchange dynamic. Dendrophilia - Sexual interest in trees. May or may not be sexual to either party. The identity of the s-type is ingrained and considered 'total'.
Mucophilia - Sexual interest in mucus, i. Contract - A written agreement between a D-type and s-type, used to outline the rules, structure, limits, etc of the relationship. Fellatio - The act of oral sex performed on a male. And its not the job of any therapist to pathologize this or any other non-harmful, non-offending sexual kinks and fetishes.
Drag - The act of dressing as the opposite of one's gender. Consent Violation CV - The breaking of an established code of consent, which may include abuse, assault, rape, battery, doxing, etc. Erotophonophilia - Sexual interest in the thought or act of oneself or others committing murder. May involve anger, depression, guilt, feelings of inferiority, loneliness, or kink gay speed dating ranica.
The level and frequency varies greatly depending on the individual. Collaring - An event wherein the commitment between a D-type and s-type is formalised. Edge Play - Refers to a range of scene and play activities which are considered high-risk. LDR Long Distance Relationship - Acronym denoting a relationship over a significant distance, such as cross-country or overseas.
Commonly, the naked male can be subjected to any range of treatments or tortures. Hotwife - An attractive married female who participates in sex with other men, often whilst her husband watches or participates. Clit Torture - The infliction of pain exclusively on the clitoris. Mysophilia - Sexual interest in dirtiness, or soiled or decaying things.
When asked a few basic questions about his sex life, he says that for the last several years he has been hiring a dominatrix a few times per month, paying her to physically and verbally humiliate him. Feeder - A person who takes pleasure in feeding a bottom to encourage weight gain. Moreover, it is causing significant and ongoing stress and anxiety, affecting both his social and work life.
Monogamish - Colloquial term for a primarily monogamous relationship, where partners may partake in sexual encounters. Core element of BDSM. Open to many structures, a Family is often headed by a Dominant, but may be Leather, age-playing, poly, or otherwise. Mammaphilia - Sexual interest in breasts; also known as mammagynophilia and mastofact.
FFF - Common acronym denoting an all-female - male - male threesome. Edging - Similar to orgasm control and denial; involves bringing someone repeatedly to the brink of climax, but denying the payoff. Mommy - Caregiving variant of a D-type role within a power dynamic, often with nurturing and gentle practices. Most commonly, a mentor will be on the same side of the slash as the mentee, and the two will not play together.
Internal Enslavement - A mental state where a slave or 'property' will see the roles of a dynamic as integral and internal. Mindfuck - The act of toying with someone's mental state, causing confusion, delirium, or their perception of reality. An actual collar is frequently used, but the couple may decide on any symbol; an anklet, a necklace, etc.
Flogger - A tool commonly used in impact play. Unfortunately, this role is open to misuse, so a potential mentor should be considered carefully. The opposite of transvestism. Cuckquean - A female whose male partner has sex with other women, commonly involving some level of humiliation. A key reason for Aftercare. Degradation - The act of treating someone with contempt or disrespect.
Little - A form of s-type who roleplays a younger age typically up to May involve the use of toys, pacifiers, clothing, and occasionally adapting their voice, as well as affectionate, nurturing, and disciplinary practices. Hair Bondage - Bondage technique involving securing the hair to limit mobility of the head or upper body. Again, I will use alcohol as an analogy.
Figging - The act of inserting prepared ginger root into the anus to illicit a burning sensation. This fluid is a different composition to urine, and is generally expelled during an orgasm or high stimulation. Not all females have the ability to ejaculate. The process includes mental transformation as well as physical, and may be an s-type's doll personal choice, or that of the D-type Owner.
Narratophilia - Sexual interest in dirty talk, usually with obscene words. Caregiver CG - Variant of a D-type role within a power dynamic, often with nurturing and gentle practices. Checklist BDSM - Commonly a document containing someone's limits, preferences, experience level, and desired outcomes of a scene. Considered a temporary form of body modification, which can last anywhere from wks.
Hooks Anal - A metal hook with a plug for insertion into the anus, and a loop on the other end to be attached to the hair or rope for predicaments. Consider as an analogy the difference between a casual drinker, a heavy drinker, and an alcoholic. Homeovestism - Deriving sexual pleasure from wearing clothing of one's own gender. Golden Shower - Colloquial term referring to urolagnia or watersports.
Masochist - Someone who derives pleasure from being subjected to pain, physically or emotionally. Cosplay - Short form of "Costume Play" referring to the used of attire and props during a Scene or Play, such as police, fantasy creatures, pop culture figures. Frottage - The act of rubbing one's body against someone for sexual arousal. Can be decorative in the form of a design.
Masochism - Deriving sexual pleasure from being subjected to pain, physically or emotionally. Femme - A female-identifying person, usually in contrast to a Butch counterpart such as in lesbian couplingsbut also encompasses feminine gay, bisexual, or trans men. Generally the person in charge, setting the rules and safe practices one should respect when in attendance.
Ranges from a quick conversation between the involved parties, or a formal written contract. So even though eyeball licking might not kink gay speed dating ranica your cup of tea, its a legitimate turn on for somebody. Sometimes referred to as a Clan, Family, or Pack, depending on the dynamic in question. Middle - A form of s-type who roleplays a younger age typically 11 to May involve sexual curiosity, watching targeted TV shows, or clothing.
Macrophilia - Sexual interest in giants, primarily domination by giant women or men. Master Leather - A person who has achieved expert proficiency in a particular skill set, or an indicator of how long someone has been involved in the community kink or otherwise. Cisgender - Presenting a gender identity matching one's physical sex.
Female Ejaculation - The expulsion of bodily fluids from the Skene gland via the urethra. He says he wants to continue dating this woman, but he also wants to continue with the dominatrix. Cock Ring - A device worn around the shaft of the penis to prolong erections. This can be considered a form of edge play and should be approached carefully and consensually.
Occasionally used for decorative purposes. Can be used as a prop, or for penetration. If you have been a victim of a consent violation, help is here. Doraphilia - Sexual interest in leather, skin, or fur.